In the midst of hopping up on energy drinks and attempting to get some work done… I quickly accepted the first distraction that came my way. It just so happened to be a great friend of mine. During our rambling about anything that came to mind I came to a conclusion about myself.
I am an expert on being single. On how to be single, and ensure to stay single.
What a quality to have right? Well- turns out I really like myself a lot, and I like what I have going on. I don’t want just anyone coming in and messing with my mojo. So when the wrong type comes around… I am prepared to protect my singleness.
Oh you like me do you? Well allow me to destroy that idea. You may ask why would you want to do this?! WELL- I recommend in only using this against the jerk type guys that I described in my previous post: http://kennedy-carmichael.tumblr.com/post/20624280722/dont-hate-the-player-just-destroy-their-game-part
You might think- but the guy I like isn’t anything like the guys you described.
Okay, well that’s fine- but lets just say he doesn’t end up being prince charming… you may as well stock up on some useful tools in case, right?
First move of protecting your singleness-
If a guy mentions liking me- I usually reply with, “You don’t want to like someone like me…” It’s only fair to give them a warning right? They will more than likely think you are playing hard to get, and you just say- “It’s hard to explain, but we can hang out…” Then you give your cutest smile. This step is important so that when you do blow things, you can go back to this like a contract and state, “I told you when we met…” [You might recognize this trick from the previous post about methods players use. It can be molded to work for your benefit too]
Second move of protecting your singleness-
The moment I realize there is a slight attraction towards me I pull back all attention I was giving that person. I do this by “wandering off” in social settings and making sure they witness how much fun I am having not being around them. You then go back and pay them some attention, because the key is to give them mixed signals till their mind blows up. No one likes complicated people.
Third move of protecting your singleness-
Refer at appropriate times about what a great friendship you have. If you are like me you will take it up a notch and even offer to wing-girl them at the bar. Throw in a couple lines of, “I think she’d be cute for you!” At this point they are thinking you are not into them- and when they accept the offer, you act slightly down. That mixed signal stuff again, eventually will ensure they give up on you for good.
Fourth move of protecting your singleness-
After doing all this stuff you then avoid them. Just become too busy and then let it fizzle out. They will eventually decide you are far too complicated and complex to like. Then once they have finally moved past the idea of liking you, you reappear in their life… just fun and as if nothing happened. #totalmindfuck
As always there are many ways but I am just highlighting the ones that come to mind. The key to executing all these properly is being subtle and using your sweet girl innocence to your advantage. They expect you to be kind and sweet, so give them that image on the surface. They will never suspect that you are intentionally screwing with their mind.